Tuesday, January 18, 2011

TP-ing ............the neighbors house!

Dad went in the bathroom and the toilet paper was gone.. once again..and he said to Ryan .. what did you do... TP somebodies house??? How come the toilet paper is gone?? All in a joking manner... I chimed in and said, " He doesn't know what you are talking about.." and Paul said... ,"Yes he does!". And he grabbed Ryan's letter board and asked him,"Do you remember anyones house getting toilet papered in our neighborhood? Well he spells...........DAVE'S.............. Yep.......... the only house ever in our neighborhood to get toliet papered............. Dave's!!!! He got the name.. and he got his last name and his daughther's name too! Well... he is so smart and such a good memory...that happened 5 years ago...................WOW!!!

Thursday, January 13, 2011

the poem

There was this thing where it would have you pick a color a noun an a adjective and then click a button and it would insert your words into a poem.......Well Ryan did this .. and we read the poem It said the girl named laura with PURPLE HAIR and well it was .. wait .. will let ryan tell you..................What do you think............Ryan.. he said


DUMB........... I asked him how did you know how to spell dumb.. he said Ashley told me...she did I asked her

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Saturday, January 8, 2011

WE MUST HAVE CHILDREN WITH NO VOICE LEARN RPM

A incident happened that to honor Ryan I will not mention.. however............. after seeing the beautiful outcome because of the open ended communication with rpm had on this situattion.. I had to blog this..............

PLEASE share the blogs I have written with folks..... so they might understand the life changing effect rpm has on families and children with Autism. It makes me so sad to know how many children are trapped for NO REASON................THERE IS NO REASON .. THEY HAVE TO BE TRAPPED WITH NO VOICE.. IF RYAN LEARNED RPM AND I LEARNED RPM AND MY 13 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER LEARNED RPM AND MY HUSBAND AND MY THERPIST LEARNED RPM ...................EVERY FAMILY IN THE WORLD CAN LEARN RPM.........EVERY CHILD CAN HAVE A VOICE...............PLEASE BELIEVE ME...............WE JUST ARE NOT TEACHING THEM BASED ON THEIR SENSORY CHANNELS.............. It is simply heartbreaking so I have said enough.. but wanted to call out to whoever may read this blog......... THANK YOU FOR LISTENING... GOD BLESS THE CHILDREN............

AN INVITATION

Ryan was doing language arts with Ashley and he was learning how to write and invitation. He letterboarded a letter based on the model in his english book.


He choose the person the place the date the time and what the invitation was for... how awesome!



it said.....

DEAR KATE, I WOULD LIKE TO INVITE YOU OUT TO LUNCH. IT IS JANUARY 9TH AT 12

AT,SAY,CICI'S.

PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF YOU CAN COME


YOUR BEST FRIEND

RYAN



Oh.. I just loved the use of the word,"say" and by the way..you will find us tomorrow after church at cici's pizza with kate!

FORGIVE RYAN.. LOST PRIVLEDGE!

Ryan and I fell asleep before dinner...not good.. Well went to our favorite restaurant.. Willies.. and home and soon it was bedtime... well.. the night was a complete disaster.. not to wake Ashley we brought Ryan in our room and told him to lay down and be quiet and to watch his Babe the Pig movie which always puts him to sleep. Well 5 hours later .. he is jumping on the bed and laughing.. yep.. so his Dad told him I am not taking you to the store tomorrow if you don't lay down and go to bed.. well....................... he lost his privilege. So I said to Ryan.. Mommy is very disappointed in your behavior.. not listening to us when we told you to watch your movie and lay down and be quiet... he spells....... FORGIVE .. I said forgive what? FORGIVE RYAN he said. I of course had to give him a Mom speech about repenting when you do something wrong and to be honest ..I was still upset and exhausted and really was not ready to forgive him........great huh.......so then he says... this to me GOD NOT HOLD UNFORGIVENESS.

Well...........there it is....... I repented for my not unforgiveness toward Ryan................Dad of course was in on all of this and we all hugged each other and said to Ryan we forgive you for not listening forgive Mommy for not forgiving you sooner Ryan........ We said what happened why could you sleep.. and he said NAP.. yeah....I know......

Then hours later when dad had finally woke from his nap.. Ryan the first thing he said to Dad was... RYAN LOST PRIVILEGE TO GO TO STORE... Sadly Paul said.. yes Ryan but we will go tomorrow..... Would I have forgiven him.. or just held all that frustration inside with the letterboard.......