Ryan and God!

Ryan was asked to write an article in our churches news issue entitled,"  Stories of Hope". This is what he shared:

My name is Ryan Harris. For many years, I was upset and feeling weary. People are scared of me because of my intense Autism gestures. In the silence there is extreme upset. Not able to talk, a nice teacher helped me to spell. Soon feelings flooded my mind. Listening, God spoke. Holy Spirit now realized. Now fostering good feelings, so present is the Holy Spirit. I am healing. God is giving me a real voice. At Hope Church, I see God working through Capernaum camp. Camp challenges us to try new things. God gives us the strength to learn how capable we all are. Wisdom is found in our times of prayer together. I find love through the selflessness in our learders. Love your neighbor as yourself- this is what camp teachers. Always remember, peace God gives now and into eternity.

My very auditory son .. Ryan!

 So this week  I notices just how auditory my son is.. Funny, I know this and speak about this issue to   many folks at our meetings, but these situations happened one after the other... so. I guess I needed reminding:)

Day one:
He was in speech and  we were playing a new game where he had to read a sentence on a card if he wanted to get further clues in the game.. and I pointed to the sentence and he said ..." I  AM NOT READING... I WANT TO HEAR.

Day Two
He was in Physical therapy and he was rolling a basketball up the wall with two hands over his head and back down the wall keeping pressure on the ball the entire time...so get this not one time did he look at his hands... not on time did he look at the ball.. not one time did  his face look  toward the wall...his head was turned towards his therapist and he was listening to her words glancing at her mouth ( she was speaking to him..encouraging him to take the ball up high above his head and then back down and counting down the number of reps left). It really made me think at that moment my gosh.....he acts like he is blind.....

Day Three:  Ryan was letter boarding in front of a stranger and the guy turned to me and said.. he isn't even looking at his board!... and I said.. yeah.. he has it memorized like we do when we type... but again.. his eyes ... the no looking thing and the thought came back to me.. he acts like he is blind.

So in the past Ryan said I cant think and hear and look and move body at the same time....So.. why could we get him to see the letterboard.. some of you might wonder....well it was thanks to the sensory understanding and neuroscience of rpm ... Soma started out teaching him...as if he was blind taping choice the sound of tearing paper.. no visual pictures just auditory description...uh... Brilliant!!!!

 Just asked him as I was writing this about his thought on the subject and he NOT wanting to letter board  he told me he wants to eat...LOL...gave me this brief incomplete statement when asked.. tell folks what the deal is with your eyes  and what's up with your ears.. he says.. ,, RYANS MIND FEELS HEARING...  that is kinda interesting comment??

He came back in the room.. and  to my surprise wanted to letter and said the following.. he said BEAWARE HINT LIKE LISTENING! YOUR MIND IS NICE MOM HINT I  LIKE HELPING...

So hope we helped you understand a little better .. many kids are using one sense more then the other so make sure you are speaking to them too and this is.from a Mom by the way whose open learning channel is auditory! ( if you want to know which sense you seem to favor.. ask yourself this questions.. when getting directions to a local place in town.. what does that look like... for me I don't need someone to write down the direction.. that is kinda annoying to me ..I will say this...statement...no don't worry about writing it done ..just TELL me how to get there.. ok..and again.I repeat it back  to hear my own self say it.. I'm and auditory  MOM!

I Won't Change His Words.....

Today Ryan  started 7th grade Literature. We read a story called Chura and Marwe,  an African folktale as told by Humphrey Harman.

It is a wonderful story about two slave children who love each other dearly. As the story develops, you see the love these two slave children  have for one another.  As the folktale opens, it explains that  Chura is a  young slave boy who is very unattractive. They say he has a  face like a " toad." and he is hard to look at when he passes by.   Unlike Marwe, whose external beauty was simply magnificent to those who looked upon her.

 The question Ryan had to answer before he left his virtual classroom was the following:  How does Chura exemplify the saying," Don't judge a book by its cover?" He answered the teacher: 

 Chura is very peaceful. He is loving and keeps Marwe near his heart.
 Weary having to see people look at his appearance.
 He learns intense beauty lives on inside.

I thought... who writes like that??...so different yet so meaningful ... most people don't speak or write like this...it is .not "proper" English, but I won't change his words.  I see that this is how in  Ryan's mind he speaks.
 He speaks from one who can relate to Chura's challenges as well.  He has shared how  people stare at him and are scared of him... but that is another post another day. It is all good and Ryan I am proud of you once again!

Ryan's school writing on Spring.

It is amazing to me how Ryan sees and hears from God. I believe they have a very unique relationship... one I will never truly understand. Ryan had to write on a why spring is beautiful.. so unique... in his thoughts and how he sees things...  .

  Spring

 

Spring is beautiful because to God life has meaning. Life is the melody of spring. Spring eases the weariness of winter. Spring calls... I love each day. Each Spring our peaceful God decides springtime is to live another year. He allows heaven on earth. A divine peace we receive when he gives us spring.

Colors,: green red, yellow and orange! Green is so energetic. You see energy in fields of green! It is caught in this needed weary world.

So, to each leaf a call to life. Spring fills universe and gets eternity

Candice is in it to Win It!!

The family has been watching American Idol and I paused the show and asked Dad and Ashley and Ryan who they were voting for and Ryan said..  Mom so easy to include Ryan can't say how much I love you... he was thanking me for pausing the show  and getting the board to include him in our voting.. yes.. how many times are children with Autism ignored....Well guess who he voted for.. yes Candice... he said Candice is in it to win it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just like Randy says all the time.... it cracked me up and made me so "darn" ( favorite grampa word of Ryan's) happy. That was three weeks ago.. so fast forward to tonight.. when Candice sang her I am beautiful song...which is about how Jesus sees us as beautiful.. well Ryan and all of us are so happy at the end of the show when Candice just blew it out ..with  her final song.. and I asked Ryan  about the  I am beautiful song... and.. Well he says... " Candice is a girl God called. Feels God's feelings of intense Love"  Wow.. so  deep.. I  just love Ryan ... so precious...

Wedding comments and Jeans too!

Ryan was invited to a wedding...one of his friends sister... so I went out and bought him his first pair of dress shoes and black slacks and shirt and sweater .. he looked soooooooooo grown up. Well, I went to the store twice and Grammy was hemming the pants and we were in full preparation mode for the big evening ahead.. So, Ryan put on his new shoes after us fitting him for his pants and marking the hem etc. ... he started running back and forth.. in the living room.. I said  what are you thinking... . THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME HAVE GOOD OUTFIT. SO HAPPY

 I never knew he could be so excited about his clothes he really was happy.. he cared about his clothes.. he is growing up...

Then he gave a wonderful toast to our table. RYAN IS SO GRATEFUL FOR LOVING KIND FRIENDS...

WEDDING SO LOVING AND EMOTIONAL....  comment when bride and groom where dancing

Told friend when he was getting upset...GOD HAS GOOD PLANS FOR OUR LIFE xxxxxx. HE IS LOVING GOD.. 

 Next morning I was telling Paul... Ryan needs nice clothes.. he needs jeans so Paul said to Ryan try one of my pairs of jeans on  .. to see how they fit.... just to gauge size..  then  Paul said you can have mine if you grow a few inches.. and  ryan  spoke.. sounds like irritated and he letterboarded

RYAN WANTS HIS OWN NEW PANTS.............!!!!!!!!!

Fast forward Paul came home with new jeans for Ryan .. he tried them on and me ashley and daddy were talking about all they need is a hem and he is set to go............so I said do you like the jeans .. and he said
 YES EAGER TO GET THEM HEMMED!

You gained weight and I would appreciate your attention!

 Ryan told me that he noticed I gained weight!................IS THAT AWESOME! Only with RPM.. and that is the only person I would love hearing those words from!


We were in the middle of writing a story and the phone rang.. I answered it and then when I was finished Ryan said." I WOULD APPRECIATE HAVING YOUR ATTENTION."  Yep he told me!!!!!!!!!!!!.

Project Paranormal Investigators

 Today we left the neighborhood and we saw  a car in our neighbors drive and on the back it said," PROJECT PARANORMAL INVESTIGATORS." So, Ashley asked about that and I said it is like ghost hunters! We watched them take out their supplies from their car!  So, I asked Ryan what do you about ghosts being in X"s house and Ryan spelled ,"ERIE" and then we were talking about what they could be doing.. and we asked Ryan what he thought about it ... and he cracks us up Ashley is in the backseat of the van and she told me she is thinking he is going to say Fear or Fearful something like that.. when he hit the F then she thought...oh maybe the word... Frightening when he hit the FR.. but he spells FREAKY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How funny is that!!!!!!!!!!!!... I Just LOVE LETTER BOARDING ..

Pie and More Pie!

We were at Whole Foods today ...this is Ashley talking! Ryan and I were getting some food while dad was shopping. We passed by all the samples the bakery had of different flavored pies! Yum!  I tried Cherry and then Strawberry and some other flavor pie..  I asked Ryan if he wanted to try some. He didn't, he is not a "pie guy".  So  we went along with our shopping and Ryan started making a lot of noise and getting in Dad's face.We knew he was trying to tell us something. So  we got the letterboard and Ryan spelled, " Ashley got a bit carried away with the samples." I laughed so hard. I wanted to try one of each and Ryan was waiting on me the whole time wanting to hit the pizza section... so I'm sure he was bored while I was snacking! He is so funny....:)